Help your husband with his chores today. Does he usually take out the trash? Clean-up after dinner? Give the little ones their evening bath? Smile and insist on covering it for him. Encourage him to do something relaxing while you cheerfully tend to his usual duties.
Tonight I didn't do as much for Ben as I could have. I started out strong -- I took out the trash and recycling and made sure there weren't any chores that I would normally let spill over into the evening and get his help with, like dishes, laundry, etc. But I did let him put the babies to bed, and while he was doing that, Caleb was busily opening the bottom drawer of their dresser/changing table and banging him in the shins while he changed Connor's diaper.